Dear Friend, Let me ask you a few questions. Think carefully before you answer.
If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions I want you to know something... You are not alone. This is actually a list of some of the biggest concerns that hundreds of men have said they face in their dating lives. It's a fact: The average guy grows up lacking the knowledge of how female attraction really "works". After all, its not something they teach you in school. Most guys are very familiar with the frustration of doing everything they could think of for a woman such as taking a her to dinner, buying expensive gifts and telling her how he feels... Only to find that she suddenly seems uninterested or she tells you that she doesn't think of you in the same way. Or giving her a thoughtful gift and having her break out the old "we're just friends" talk. And most guys know what it feels like to be completely TERRIFIED of even saying "hi" to a beautiful woman they want to talk with. It's enough to make you consider becoming a monk. Your friends and family give you advice like "Just be yourself" or " You need to be a "bad boy"." But nothing seems to work for you. What's worse is movies and television make it look so easy... The "hero" writes a love note or says a few sincere things and the woman jumps into his arms. How often has a woman melted like that when you showed her your sincere emotions? Yeah me too. The truth is attraction just doesn't work like that in real life. And it took me years of failing with women to finally get fed up enough to do something about it. It started with Sarah... I fell in love with Sarah in kindergarten. When all the boys were calling girls "gross", I found her mesmerizing. She would do cartwheels during recess and I would sit in the grass and watch her with all these new emotions running through me. Of course I played along and acted like I thought girls were gross. But the fact was... I liked Sarah. a lot. I did my best to sit close to Sarah... I even dreamed about Sarah... She was the first of many many crushes I had on the girls I went to school with. Something about the way they talked, the way they laughed. I was hooked. It's safe to say that I wanted to be good with women as far back as I can remember. But the funny thing about reality is that it never quite works out the way you want. Puberty intensified my desire for women but now I had an awkward, lanky and pale Irish reflection when I would look in the mirror. I would talk to girls at school and get nothing but polite rejection. They called me "sweet" but they would always go for some other guy. Some guy very unlike me. I thought it was because I didn't have a car yet. I told myself that when I get a car I will get hot girls to like me. Genius! Right? Wrong. Nothing I did brought me closer to dating success. Fast forward to college and we find me still in the same position. Chasing women who always seemed to be running in the other direction. I saw beautiful women all around me with jerk boyfriends, or complete losers. What made me different? How could a smart, nice guy like me be all alone while these idiots get the women? Then one day the clouds parted and I was sent a "gift"... A woman's interest. Finally! So what did I do? I quickly made her my girlfriend. But guess what happened? I was so jealous of other guys... so insecure that she was the only girl who would ever like me, that I sabotaged the relationship. It was totally my fault. I chased her away. I found myself dumped, crushed and thrown back into a cruel dating world again. Clueless like before. Women began to seem evil to me. My frustration had turned into bitter depression. "Enough..." You know that moment when you become so sick of your situation that you say "enough is enough" and you vow to do whatever it takes to change your life? I would later learn that experts call this moment threshold and its an important moment for a man. Well I hit threshold. Hard. I was sick of feeling like my dating life was out of my control. I was tired of living in a state of "quiet desperation". And most importantly I decided it was time to do something about it. Instead of sit and wonder why women didn't like me, I set out to figure out what drives a woman to be attracted to a man in the first place. I wanted to know why women choose certain men and not others. I wanted to know how I could achieve the life I knew I deserved with women. So I picked up every book, every article, everything I could think of on dating and female psychology. I searched the internet for answers. I talked to men who were "naturals" with women. I studied strange related topics like evolutionary psychology, social dynamics and anything else that would bring me closer to being better with women. I became a student of attraction for 2 years. Rather than go on dates or talk to women, I studied about them. And since I was totally dateless, I had a LOT of free time on my hands. An Unusual Community One day I stumbled onto a group of guys on the internet that actually went out and practiced approaching women. They would share stories and theories on attraction that I had never heard before. And I thought I heard it all. They called themselves Pickup Artists. I was intrigued and discovered that my city Austin, Texas was full of men just like myself who wanted to get better with women and met every week to discuss techniques with each other. I was very curious and quickly met up with these men and began an education that made the last 2 years of study seem like pre-school. I realized that only studying about women was the equivalent of reading a book about learning to ride a bike. It was going to take more than that. I began going out with some of these men and watching them approach women. I noticed how the things I had studied and what they were doing were very similar and I eventually worked up the nerve to try approaching women myself. Talk about rejection. The first time I approached a woman I can remember how nervous I was. The guys told me what to say and sort of pushed me in her direction. I approached and awkwardly fumbled my words. She looked at me like I was an alien. I turned around and walked back to the guys, embarrassed and defeated. But instead of being mean about it, they praised me for trying. They made me realize that I had just done what few men will ever do in their entire lives... I approached a woman I didn't know. I should be proud. That's when I realized something... something that would change my life forever... Her rejection had absolutely no effect on my life. And it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it was going to be. My reality was "stretched" just enough to show me something very important... that I had been fearing something needlessly. That little realization was like a spark starting a large fire. From that moment on, I decided that this was something I was going to get good at, no matter what. I set myself a goal to work on this skill at least 4-5 times a week. If some of these guys could do it, then I could too. Looking back it seems a bit obsessive but I was determined. For the next several months I approached countless amounts of women. I tried all kinds of crazy theories I read about, all kinds of scripted "routines" and other things that got me a lot more rejection. I finally tried out all the things I had been reading about for the last 2 years. I began to go to seminars to learn more advanced material. I studied even harder and went out and applied all kinds of different techniques you might have read or heard about. I also began to study about the inner aspects of myself. I explored all my negative beliefs that were hurting my chances with women. I took a hard look at my years of mental programming and realized most of my past failures were due to my "inner-game" issues that plagued me since childhood. During this time I was going out and meeting women nearly every day. I quickly realized that a lot of the pickup theories and techniques did not work for me. Some of the things I learned I could not bring myself to even try out. Much of it felt too much like manipulation to me. But those months of approaching women finally began to pay off for me. I was seeing what worked for me and what was just plain bad information. I was also developing a skin for rejection. I began to see that even the best get rejected sometimes. In fact, I noticed that some of the best guys with women actually got rejected THE MOST. They simply didn't let it affect them and jumped right back into meeting women. Talk about a strange revelation. I began taking the bits and pieces of the techniques I was learning that made sense to me and I threw away the junk. I began to realize a lot of the information I had studied so carefully actually did NOT work in the real world. I quickly ditched those things and focused on what I saw was working for me. Soon I began to notice little changes in my interactions with women. Little changes that built on themselves. It went like something like this...
And on and on. My success with women was coming in tiny tiny steps. I was making mistake after mistake, learning from them and trying again. So to be honest with you I took the long road and wasted a lot of time correcting myself and trying again. But whatever gets you there I suppose. I look back on that experience with amazement that I put that much energy into it. But it was worth it. The "Me" Today... These days I can happily say that I have choice in my dating life. If I see a woman I am attracted to, I now have the confidence and the skill to approach her. It's not a 100% perfect success rate (anyone who tells you that is lying) but I can usually get any woman I want in most situations I find myself in. More importantly, I am not a slave to my own fear of rejection and insecurity anymore. I have dated all kinds of women from law students to exotic dancers. I have had long-term relationships lasting about a year to multiple short term relationships. I was even featured in the first ever academic research conducted on this underground "Pickup Artist" community. (Because I am very pale and very thin I was given the nickname "ghost" by the guys) The weird thing was I never really felt like I should be grouped into the category of "Pickup Artists". I was actually quoted several times in the study as being against a lot of the bad information spreading around the internet and in the media. I found most of it simply did NOT work for guys and was counterproductive to real success. I have also spoken at workshops and shared my information with all kinds of guys from all walks of life. Divorced guys, buff guys, nerdy guys. Its always the same thing. They don't believe they have it in them to be successful with women. This is the biggest lie you can ever tell yourself. Heck, if I can do it, ANYONE can. The good news is I don't believe you need to do what I have done to see the same success. In fact, I feel like I took the long road. I can't complain because I have ended up where I am today, but I certainly don't think you need to try to become a "pickup artist" to meet and date women. I actually suggest not going that route. There is an easier way. But we'll get to that in a second. I want to share with you a few things that you can do immediately to start seeing more success with women... 3 Huge Mistakes You Cannot Afford to Make With Women I notice that the average guy makes the following 3 mistakes with women. Even though there are many more mistakes you may be making, if you can just correct these three things then you are on your way to seeing more success than most men will ever see. Mistake #1: Believing that you can somehow convince a woman to be attracted to you. No amount of telling a woman why she should like you is going to make her like you. Too many guys feel like they can logically persuade a woman to fall for him. They will buy her gifts, do sweet things for her, and tell her how they feel. And for some reason it never works. So they try harder only to end up frustrated and angry. Then they carry this anger into their next interaction with a woman. You can see the destructive pattern here. Write this down immediately: A woman's attraction to a man is not a conscious decision. Let me ask you something... When a beautiful woman walks around a corner, do you stop and think to yourself "Okay brain... be attracted to her!" Of course not. A woman cannot control her attraction to men just like you cannot control your attraction to women. Its a biological process that happens immediately and is out of everyone's control. The good news is that attraction is "wired" differently in women. Things like your looks or your age are not part of a woman's attraction wiring. I'm sure you have seen this in your experiences with some ugly guy dating a total babe. You simply have to learn how to "flip the switches" of attraction and stop doing the things that are killing it. So never try to convince a woman to like you. It's a waste of your time. If she is not into you now, its best to move on to another woman who will be into you. This is hard to hear for many men. It sucks but its the honest truth. Mistake #2 Thinking that certain guys are born being good with women Skill with women is just like any other skill. It can be developed and improved until you get the success you want. Stop assuming that certain men are born to be good with women. Any man can have this for himself. The truth is no one is born an expert at anything. Success with women is a skill, just like riding a bike or learning a new sport. In my experience, I have seen countless men from all walks of life prove this over and over again. You just need to find a trusted source that will walk you through the tiny processes of increasing your confidence and skill with women. Its not an overnight thing but with the right information, it can happen very quickly. Some guys are so ready to be successful that I've seen them change in a matter of days. Its nuts. Mistake #3 - Not making this aspect of your life a priority Most guys exist in something I like to call a Comfortable Mediocrity. They want a better dating life but they are not driven enough to actually take the necessary steps to make it happen. This is more dangerous than it might seem. Comfortable Mediocrity leads to eventual bitterness and depression. Its one of those things where you wake up 20 years from now and are full of regret and anger that you did not take action and make your life something amazing when you had the chance. Its never too late to change your life. Don't let another day go by in comfortable mediocrity. Find your threshold that I mentioned earlier and do something about it today while you still have time. "Why should I listen to you anyway?" You may be asking yourself this right now. After all, you don't know me and I don't know you. But I believe if you have read this far then we have a lot in common. This information probably just makes sense to you. Just like me, I know you have felt the pain and frustration of failing with women. Its the same pain that lead me to create a radical new lifestyle for myself in hopes of getting rid of it. And I did. Its the same pain that leaves you lying awake at night wondering how you are going to get this part of your life under control once and for all. Its the realization that a woman is not going to just "fall into your lap" someday. Its the realization that you are in control of your destiny and its up to you to make your life something of value. I know that feeling and we are similar because of it. I used to be in your exact situation. In fact, mine was probably worse. So I did something about it. The great thing is I have met men no different than you. I get letters from them all the time telling me that they have felt more confident reading my information than they have in years. And how my material actually works in the real world. And that's what I want to talk to you about right now... I want to save you years of wasted time Rather than face the dating world alone, let my countless hours of study and experimentation show you the way to real success with women. It's time to take the first step and decide to make this a priority in your life too. It's taken me awhile, but I have finally put together a resource for getting this area of your life handled, once and for all. Its the steps you need to take today, the failures you need to avoid now and the techniques that you need to possess immediately. These are the exact same things that have taken me from a dateless nobody to someone who has complete choice in his dating life. Its all the good information that actually worked for me and none of the garbage that wasted so much of my time. Its real world information you can use right away to see a change in your situation. It has nothing to do with being a "Pickup Artist" As I said, I took the long road and I'd like to help you avoid a lot of wasted time. The feeling of peace that comes with being able to choose who you want to date is something I think every man deserves to know. That frantic feeling is gone. That little piece of depression that seems to follow you everywhere you go is lifted. My information focuses on learning how to flip the secret, biological triggers of attraction in a woman to create any outcome you could possibly want...
Either of these scenarios are possible once you understand this skill. You might ask yourself how can one body of information cover all these different things? That's a legitimate question and it deserves an answer... The fact is, attraction is universal in women. Once she is attracted and chasing you, instead of the other way around, you will have power to make the relationship whatever you want. And she will happily go along with it. Because attraction is literally like a drug to a woman's nervous system. Have you ever seen people try to convince a woman to stay away from a man she was attracted to but treated her badly? Its a hopeless argument. Women literally cannot turn away from a man they are attracted to. Even if he is a jerk. Its like they are under some kind of spell. Learning the secrets of attraction will create a completely new reality for you, regardless of what you want. And the best part is you can still be yourself and see the same success. I don't care what your issue is with women... If you are afraid to approach... If you don't know how to keep the conversation rolling... If you have no clue how to physically take it to the next level... whatever it is you think is holding you back. I explain everything you need to know about the process of going from a total stranger to having her hooked on you. What to say, how to flirt like a pro, how to recognize when she is ready for you to take it to the next level, how to actually take it to the next level, everything. Once she is attracted and pursuing you, then that's when things start getting interesting. Rather than feel like she is the one controlling the relationship you now have the power to take that relationship wherever you want it to go. Total dating freedom. In fact, you may even have to turn away several beautiful women because you simply don't have the time or you found someone you want to spend all your time with. Talk about a quality problem. I also want you to know that this is not recycled advice you may be familiar with or silly pick-up lines that get passed around the internet, but my own personal secrets and tactics that have never seen print...until now. Let me break down exactly what I have put together: The Real World Attraction System: This is the system I tweaked for over a year before releasing it. It's literally the knowledge and best techniques I have poured over, tested and refined... for the last 7 years of my life. After literally approaching hundreds of women and starting conversations, dating a lot, making tons of mistakes and eventually seeing incredible successes, I finally sat down and slowly began putting this information together. It's clear, concise and I know any man will find it useful. Needless to say, I am very proud of it and believe it will be the first step to the dating life you know you deserve. In fact I guarantee you will see results after reading it. (Keep reading to see how I am going to put my money where my mouth is). In this ebook, I share my favorite techniques for sparking uncontrollable attraction in women, word for word conversation examples, tips on escalating physically, the "inner-game" issues that are holding you back and everything in between. The great thing is you can download it right now and be reading it within minutes...
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Think about this... Every day you are most likely missing out on a whole world of opportunity. There are women you pass every day that could be an amazing experience for you. Its that woman who smiled at you in the bookstore you couldn't bring yourself to approach (the one who would have been perfect for you)... It's that woman who was interested in you but your attraction- destroying habits screwed up your chances. (Bad habits I am ready to help you get rid of)... It's that woman who is sitting across from you on the bus wanting to meet a guy who knows how to make her feel deep-level attraction (That guy can be you). If my material gets you a date with just one amazing woman, don't you think this whole thing was worth it? I believe you know the answer to that. You can choose to have ultimate choice with women or you can let this part of your life control you forever... Choice. It's what separates those with mediocre lives and those with amazing lives. We have choice in every other aspect of our life so why should dating be any exception? I finally have real choice in my relationships. I am thankful for all the terrible experiences I had with women because it got me where I am today. Maybe like you, I truly feel that someday I would like to meet that one wonderful person I can share the world with, but I'm in no rush. I don't feel the pressure the average guy feels. With every woman I meet or date, I notice another piece of the puzzle come into place. I know exactly what I want and will never have to settle again. I wouldn't have this knowledge of myself and what I want had it not been for developing this skill. Now I'm not scared I won't find a good woman anymore, and it's a wonderful feeling. I'd like to help you know that feeling as well. Every man deserves it. You only have one life and it's ending every second. Find that source of internal drive and get started changing your life today. Let me help lead you to the success that I know you feel you deserve. One day very soon you'll wake up beside her and think, "He was right. I did this." I want you to please keep me posted with these developments. Its what I am here for. Thanks for reading!
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"ghost"
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